Job Hunt Must Haves // 30x30 Lives On

Way back when, I penned a list of 30 things to do by 30.  Welp.  I'm 30 now - and the list lives on - uncompleted.  I'm fine with it.  Some of the items on the list though, I didn't want to leave them uncompleted.  This is one of those things.  I really, really wanted to learn a bit about photoshop.  I wanted to be able to put my photos together sharply into grids, I wanted to be able to touch things up - or brighten up colors and, I really wanted to be able to create one of those cool boards you see on Pinterest.  I signed myself up for Online Blogshop because like I said earlier, I just couldn't get one of their in person classes to work.  

Here's to learning new things!  Here's to Online Blogshop!  Here's to 'this is getting pinned on pinterest'!  Here's to not judging my first try!  Here's to more practice!  Vive la Blog!

With all that out of the way, let's carry on.

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”

— -Albert Einstein

People who have had to look for work know one thing:  You Have To Keep Your Spirits Up.

Apparently, my ego was quite attached to my last job and, not knowing what's next threatens to crush my self esteem daily...if I let it...

Feeling positive is important.  I don't ever want an email I send or a voicemail I leave to sound anything less than Positive.  

Here's how I've been keeping myself feeling positive.

1. When the day is done and I pretend that I just accomplished something huge.  Then I treat myself to a glass of wine.  These days it's Rosé.
2. I invested in some business cards that I was proud to hand out.  I use moo.com for a lot of my printing needs because I like their style.
3. I am maintaining a daily practice of gratitude.  I write down what I'm feeling grateful for and what I need to get done tomorrow.  It reminds me of how much I am blessed.
4. I like school supplies.  Like, a lot.  I have a mini office area set up in what I call my 'find a job corner' of my apartment.  I'm diligently tracking who I send resumes to and when.  I track who I've applied with, who I've emailed, when they've emailed me back, etc.  Sharpies brighten this up and makes it a little bit more enjoyable.  What can I say.
5. I be sure to keep fresh, colorful flowers throughout my pad.  It's winter - and sometimes it's grey outside - that does not scream feeling positive.  Flowers are Happy.  Boom.
6. Green Candles.  This one might sound a little witchy but, green candles promote prosperity.  I have three green candles - I say a little prayer - I light them up - and then I send emails, resumes, apply to positions and wait for someone to snatch me up.

How do you stay positive?

30x30 :: Go Hot Air Ballooning

I WENT HOT AIR BALLOONING!!!

Going hot air ballooning was a big deal. When I called my Girl Cousin and asked her if she wanted to do this trip with me (cause you know...birthday buddies...) I said, 'I'm not going on a budget. I'm staying in a nice hotel...and I'm going on a balloon ride...you still in?'. She was in - so we booked our balloon ride with Napa Valley Balloons. Nautie Friends, they get an A+, yo. A big 'ole fat perfect score.

Our ballooning adventure is what you might call: giving up is for losers.

Originally, our platypus tour and balloon adventure were in conjunction with eachother - we'd be whisked away from our post balloon ride champagne breakfast to go on a wine tasting tour - or at least that's what I imagined...

We woke up briiight and early on our first day in Napa and were picked up at our hotel (it was still dark out kind of early). We got to the balloon check in point and to say that the staff of NVB (Napa Valley Balloons) was friendly is an absolute understatement.

Any which way, we take off for our balloon launch site. The balloons are there - they're getting filled up - the sun is making them look magical - we get assigned a balloon - we literally run for our balloon - and then it got windy.

I was literally laying in the basket (which is on its side) to help provide a little weight. The balloon is filling up - as in the burner is going and so are the fans. Take off was imminent - I mean, other balloons were drifting past our location (flown by other ballooning companies).

....and then the day was cancelled due to wind speeds. Wop Wop. It was surreal. We looked at each other and said, 'did that really just happen?'.

Perk? We got to watch them roll the balloons back up and there was a cute little dog who clearly knew the drill!

Thank goodness we had some wine tasting in our future because it did detract a bit from our horrible let down.

I'd also like to mention that I appreciate when things are cancelled due to safety concerns. You cancel anytime you like NVB! Don't you worry about those other balloons in the air! I'm happy to trust the judgement of an experienced pilot...must be the sailor in me...

But listen friends, is that anyway to WIN?! One day of high wind and you let it lie? Glad you're with me because NO...no it's NOT!

We rescheduled and woke up again at the butt crack of dawn! Day two. Hungover as all get out (thanks Platypus!) - we climbed back into the van for a ballooning adventure.

This is the only photo I have our day two adventure because the decision was made to ground the balloons as we pulled into the parking lot. I must admit we were a tad under the weather so going back to bed wasn't sounding too awful.

As we were driving through the Valley I turned to Girl Cousin and said, 'you know we could try one more time....I know you fly out in the morning but we could literally drive ourselves to the parking lot and head straight to the airport after we land....I mean we could...'. She said, 'let's do it!' so, I called NVB and asked to be put on the schedule one more time....in our favorite pilot Bob's balloon of course.

Hence, day three in Napa commenced. With an early morning jaunt to Domaine Chandon with our fingers crossed!

Guess what? We actually went on a balloon ride! It was so different than I thought. Do you know that you really can't steer a balloon? You can go up and down - and the rest is up to the wind. Jeez, how symbolic is a balloon ride? Maybe a little like life, no?

Wanna know how sassy all that ballooning made me? I'm going again. Wanna know why? It was a tad cloudy on Day 3. Listen, I had some epic photos planned - don't get me wrong I got some good ones (over 350 in fact) but, I want to see a gilded Napa Valley - and I will!

Alright, I know what you're thinking. If you can't steer it how do you land? Well, I believe the answer is that you hope to have a decent pilot. We literally landed on a strip of gravel next to the highway. For realsies. We kind of skidded a long and then stopped. Then the 'chase crew' tries to get all the air out of the balloon as fast as they can. (I also forgot to mention that part - while we're in the air there is a team in a truck that shadows us - like storm chasers - might be a fun job!)

By opening the flap at the top they're able to quickly dump the hot air from the balloon. Then they kind of stretch it out. If you stand in front of it you can feel the heat coming out in waves (it makes for good pictures, too).

There you have it friends. A balloon ride. An 'effin BALLOON RIDE!

What? Oh, you'd like to see more photos? No problem! There are hundreds!

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In case you'd like more Napa Love you can read about Day One and Two but clearly, I've been saving the best for last! A mini disclaimer: as I rang in The Flirty Thirty I was feeling a little uncertain about what to do with my 30x30 List. Then I thought, 'it's not over till it's over'. I've got a whole year of being thirty ahead of me folks. It's not over. Be looking for more 30x30 posts! I think the balloon ride adventures let me know that 'settling' isn't always the best option. Do more! See more! Be more!

30x30 :: One HUNDRED Dollars.

I had this terribly romantic notion of dropping a hundred dollar bill into a street musicians hat.  I imagined myself in Paris or NYC leisurely strolling through a Metro or Subway station on my way to something chic.  I could hear a violinist or pianist or an ultra rad dude playing percussion on 5 gallon buckets and garbage can lids.

I thought I hit pay dirt when I was on my Road Trip.  I was sitting at Cafe du Monde sipping a Cafe au Lait and nibbling on a beignet when I heard some brass.  Hardcore brass.  Across the street was a group of young men - there were trumpets, trombones and even a french horn.  There was one very large bass drum for a little beat.  They were singing every now and then but mostly they were just jamming.

I was sitting there working up my courage to walk across the street and throw a hundred dollar bill in their pail when I noticed two ladies walking towards them down the sidewalk.

The ladies were chatting away and sort of looked like they were on their way to work.

All of a sudden the young men had completed surrounded them.  They were behind them making crude gestures.  They were cat calling.

I was totally grossed out.

They didn't get my  hundred bucks.

My next plan was that I was going to drop it into a Salvation Army red can - you know the Christmas time one where the person rings the bell all season long.

I imagined that I'd be doing my Uncle Rocket some mad honor.  He liked to put a little somethin' somethin' in the red can.

As neurotic as this sounds I just couldn't find a bell ringer I liked.

I'd walk into the store with my hundred dollar bill burning a hole in my pocket an then I'd think....they are not ringing the bell loudly enough.

Then, I was sitting in church.  At home in Hilo on my mini vacay.  I was feeling comfortable.  I was feeling like life is good.

So I dropped two fifties in the offering plate.

30x30 :: BOKEH

20. Do the cool camera trick where you get shapes of light by covering the lens with a cut out (bokeh?)

After doing a little research I can in fact confirm that this cool camera trick is called BOKEH.  A more thorough description can be found here but, in a nutshell, bokeh means blur in Japanese.

I can't exactly explain why but I've always wanted to take a photo where my lights were shaped like hearts.  It just seems so magical.  I spend a lot of time with my camera - a little magic was well deserved.

My nights have been pretty mellow in Houston - mostly because I don't have television or internet - and no things.  I needed to get creative....I figured that Big Bertha was chomping at the bit to get some time out of the purse...what better time to bokeh the night away?!

I read a few online tutorials (like this one and this one) and decided to give it a whirl however; in typical Megan fashion I read the instructions and then did my own thing....which didn't exactly work out.

The premise:  You cover your camera lens with a dark piece of paper with your desired shape cut out.  Then you adjust your camera to aperture priority - or you become a magician with manual settings.

My first try consisted of a brown paper bag cut to fit over the lens with a hair elastic to hold it in place...this let in waaay too much light.

I tried a paper bag in several different ways - no luck.  Then I decided to try a paper bag from my lanai...

Because it was so much darker out there I could kind of get it to look like hearts.

I was running into several problems.  I didn't have the 50mm lens that every tutorial recommended.  I had my two kit lenses:  18-105 and 75-300.  This meant that I needed to zoom in on something further away.  I had decent results with my much larger lens on objects across the street (the above photo is using a brown paper bag zoomed in on streetlights).  I also didn't have the black poster board that was recommended.

Road Trip!  I zoomed off to target and bought a piece of poster board and some black electrical tape.

I sat in the driver seat and constructed a cap for my lens like the second tutorial recommends.

(Does it ever crack you up when you try to recreate a craft project and yours looks like a Kindergartener made it?!)

THEIRS:

MINE:

NAILED IT.  (insert light hearted chuckle...)

(Also, I needed to make one small modification...The heart shape wasn't big enough so I cut a circle their and then cut out a larger heart that I taped over this one...)

Then, I looked like a total creeper and sat in my car in the Target parking lot with my telephoto lens.  I pretty much had it down at this point...things were going well.

I zoomed over to my favorite christmas light display (sorry, this was pre-hawaii trip).  (Canadiaunt - remember that tree that had large tendrils of lights with balls hanging from the tree?)

Next problem - I couldn't stay steady enough.

I came to my next realization.  You HAVE to have a tripod.  There really isn't an option.

I went home and decided to reconvene my mission on the following day.

The next evening - tripod in tow I went back to my tree.

SUCCESS!!!!!

The tripod is majorly the answer.

Then, not only did I feel like a creeper but, I felt like I was going to get busted by the neighborhood watch.  I had my tripod set up - with my telephoto lens - crouched behind my car - kneeling on the street - pointing my camera at peoples homes to capture their christmas lights.  How exactly would you explain that?!  'Oh don't worry, I'm just trying to take heart shaped photos of christmas lights?!' - Riiiight.

Any which way - it worked.  I used my big lens, I stayed further away from the lights and zoomed in and I used a tripod.

My favorite photo of the evening.  Slightly out of focus angels made up of hearts.

Wanna see more?  No Problemo:

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30x30 :: Make Yogurt

A couple weeks ago (i.e. before I went to Houston) I got together with my Bestie and made yogurt. You guys, it was so insanely easy. In fact, it was so insanely easy that I'm going to gloss over the details and give you the basics.

Here ya go: pick the kind of milk you like (we used organic whole milk because some of it was for baby cakes. You easily could use skim.). Get it hot - you need a thermometer. Scrape off the skim. Let it cool - again, use the thermometer. Add your starter (you can easily steal some from a friend or you can buy some plain yogurt at the store). You'll only need a few spoonfuls. Stir it all in and then pour into your individual containers. Now you need to keep it at the perfect temp. A gas stove with a pilot light will work - or you can use a yogurt maker. I kinda recommend the yogurt maker - if you're a yogurt eater like me it will pay for itself in no time - they're about 30 bucks.

Once your yogurt has thickened put it in the fridge and eat it up! (Also, I didn't eat it all before I went to Houston and it was fine when I got back...the mini jars last a long time! Bonus!)

I'm glad I added this to the list. It was easy, cheap and tasty! I know I'll make it again.

30x30 :: One of Three

It's pretty hard to believe but, I've been blogging for almost two years.  Two Years! Over time a few things have changed (like my sassy new page) but for the most part things are exactly the same as they have always been.  I tell exaggerated stories while I'm out to sea and then I bore you to death when I'm at home on vacation lounging around the house.

I'm not exactly sure why but, I'm very, very, very shy about my blog.  I haven't told very many people about it at all.  In fact, I know everyone who comments.

I've been thinking of ways that I can coax myself out of hiding.  I truly enjoy writing about my days and having a place to post my photos but mostly, I love sharing them with you all.

I decided that one way to come out of my shell was to start thanking the ladies who give me inspiration.  Which is why I included this on my 30x30 List:

14.  Send an e-mail to the ladies behind my three favorite blogs

A few days ago I knew that it was do or die.  I either started sending out e-mails or I'd always just be too shy.

The first one went out with amazing results!

I sent Amy of Coffee and Sunshine this note:

Hello Amy!

First off, let me just say that I really, really hope this note doesn't make me sound like a creepy internet stalker.....

I've been reading your blog for quite awhile.  In fact, yours is one of my ultimate favorites.  There are only a few blogs that I absolutely won't delete from my reader without actually reading...and yours is one of them. 

I started a blog on a total whim about two years ago.  I'm a sailor and I was having a really hard time staying in touch with my friends and family.  When I'm out to sea sometimes it feels like a total chore to write a few emails.  I got a fun camera and then decided a blog might be the perfect compliment.  Since then I've just been blogging away!

I feel so dramatic when I say this but seriously, blogging has absolutely changed my life.  It's gotten me back in touch with long lost family members - kept me in touch with friends far away - and most importantly it helps me look for the positive in my days.  While posting away on my own blog though, I've also started reading other peoples blogs - it's been so much fun!!!!!! 

I love how honest you are about your quest for a more healthful lifestyle.  I love your thoughts on weight loss and body image.  I love seeing what you're up to! 

I have to admit.....I have a life list.  Well, actually it's a 30x30 list.  Number 14 on my list is to send emails to my three favorite lady bloggers.  You're my first email! 

While I love blogging I'm actually super duper shy about my blog.  It's the strangest thing!  I very rarely tell people about my blog - it's pretty much just friends and family stopping by.  Your blog provides serious inspiration for me.

In a nutshell what I'd like to say is:

Thank you for your thoughtful writing.  Thank you for your honesty.  Thank you for your positivity and good ideas. 

I feel like we'd be friends for realsies - if you're ever in Hawai'i (and I'm not at sea) - I'd love to treat you to a coffee and show you around!  (See....that sounded more friendly than stalkery....right?)

Thank you for all your inspiration!!!!!

Aloha,

Megan

If you feel like checking out my blog:  www.nautiemermate.com 

(p.s. I didn't proofread this because I'm feeling a little nervous about sending it and didn't want to chicken out....)

SHE WROTE ME BACK THE NEXT DAY!

Here's what was waiting in my inbox:

Hi Megan!

I'm sorry it took me so long to reply! I wanted to sit down and really write you a nice thank you instead of dashing off a quick note.

First of all, thank you so much. This email made my day, truly. I love knowing who is reading! I really appreciate it, and love that you took time to write me. So, so sweet and what a great Life List goal. I might have to steal that one.

Secondly, I am so glad you've found blogging! It really is a life-changer in the best ways. I feel so much more connected to people I love and also have made so many great friends as a result.

I will definitely check out your blog and I'm seriously hoping my boyfriend and I make it to Hawaii this year (it's part of our plan!) and I will keep you posted. I'd love to meet up!

Thank you so much again for taking the time to write. It means the world.

Have a great day!

xo

Amy

I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO DESCRIBE HOW EXCITED I WAS!  (Well, so excited that I forwarded her e-mail to my Mom and my Bestie...)

Do any of you ever dream of sending a note to someone who provides you inspiration?